Can you remember back to a time when you were both so in love and everything your husband did was adorable? When there didn’t seem to be enough hours in the day for you to spend together talking and getting to know each other better. And you couldn’t wait to get married so you could spend your lifetime together, have a family and settle down with your best friend.
But as promising as things had been in the beginning it slowly started to change…..
Many couples leave getting help for their marriage until it is too late in the hope that their marital problems will resolve by itself. But sadly, this is not always the case and years of ignoring problems that could potentially have been fixed, may instead result in the couple filing for divorce.
Sometimes when a couple have been married for many years the dynamics in their relationship change as they mature and grow. So, even though they may still love their partner and feel that they are with the right person for them, their marriage may now need some adjustments in order to accommodate these changes.
Other issues may start to creep into your marriage, and the close bond that you once had with your husband is replaced by a feeling of disconnection. So instead of spending hours talking like you used to do, all you seem to do now is argue and nothing is ever resolved. Your husbands’ habits - which you once found adorable, now only irritate you. And you find yourself feeling more unloved and alone.
If you are reading this and realise that this is how you are feeling within your marriage, then you will benefit from seeking outside support and guidance - especially if you have already tried to improve your marriage and nothing so far seems to be working for you.
As a Relationship Coach I work with women only, as I’ve found that they feel more comfortable about opening up to me if they don’t have their husband sitting right next to them - especially if there have been issues of domestic abuse within the marriage.
For change to happen it must start with you, as you cannot change another person especially if they have no desire to do so for themselves. And if your husband is made to feel that he is to blame for all the problems in your marriage, he may dig in his heels and refuse to change anyway and end up resenting you.
If you would like to find out more about how I can help you, please book in for a free 45 - minute consultation with me. We will have an honest look at the problems within your marriage, and I will let you know how I can help you to repair your situation and turn things around. Or if you happen to be in an unhealthy marriage that is not safe for you and your children, we will look at what steps you need to take so you can leave in the safest and quickest way possible.
Too many people give up on their marriage as they think that it’s easier to walk away when things get too hard. Separating from your husband or getting divorced should never be seen as your only option, but instead as the last resort.
And If there are specific issues within your marriage, these may not necessarily resolve once you have ended it but may carry over into your next relationship and continue the cycle.
Every woman deserves to be in a satisfying marriage where their needs are met and they feel loved and appreciated. So let me teach you the techniques that will increase your self-esteem, improve your communication skills, and help you to feel more confident and empowered within your relationship.
