A high-value woman is someone who knows what she wants and has high standards when it comes to dating men. She knows her self-worth, and will never put up with men who do not treat her well or take advantage of her.
She captures the attention of the men around her with her confidence, class, and attitude without necessarily being the most beautiful woman in the room.

People are not born with high or low standards. Instead, it is our mindset and what we experience in our lives that shape how we view ourselves. To become a high-value woman, it’s crucial that you change your mindset and start seeing yourself as the wonderful, beautiful, and incredible women you are!

Now, you are probably wondering how you can become one of these confident and sought-after women? So, I will break this down by giving you the top 10 traits that all high-value women possess. And then hopefully you too can have a more successful relationship with either the man you currently have in your life or are still to meet in the future.

• Knowing your worth. This comes from how you feel about yourself inside. The high-value woman never allows external factors – such as her relationship status or others’ opinion of her to affect her self-esteem. She sets her own value, and never allows others to dictate her worth. She has an aura which draws people to her and drives men crazy.
• The high-value woman is not only confident in who they are as a person, but also in their strengths and abilities. They can handle any criticism that comes their way as they view it as an opportunity to grow and learn from their experience. They never have to seek validation from others to feel good about themselves, and they know how to celebrate the small wins that come their way. And when you increase your confidence and self-esteem, not only will your relationships improve but so will every area of your life.
• Love yourself unconditionally, which includes what you may see as your faults or imperfections. The high-value woman never feels guilty about treating herself with love and kindness. She understands that by showing herself love and respect first, she will not have this desperate need to seek out love and approval from others or with the wrong person.
• Raise your standards so that you are not settling for less than you truly deserve. This doesn’t mean that you’re being ‘high maintenance’. Instead what you are doing, is giving others a guideline on how they should treat you so they’re aware of what you will and won’t put up with. The high-value woman sets her standards high. She understands that she deserves to be treated well, and would rather walk away than waste her time and energy on someone who doesn’t see her worth.
• Being self-aware is so important, as it’s only through the ability to be introspective that you can better understand your emotions, thoughts and the reasons why you may react to certain situation in the way that you do. The high-value woman knows how important it is to be self-aware. And to deal with situations in a smart way instead of just reacting, which will help break the cycle of repeating the same behavioural pattern in the next relationship.
• Being independent and knowing that you can look after yourself and your own needs without relying on a man will empower you. The high-value woman understands that she’s more than enough by herself. She understands that she’s capable of having a happy and successful life with or without a man, and that any man she meets is just a wonderful bonus in her life. She doesn’t act helpless, as she’s more than capable to stand on her own two feet emotionally and financially. However, if she’s ever upset or has a set-back, she will accept the support of her man knowing that this is his way of showing her how much he loves and cares for her.
• Respect yourself and others, but also expect the same level of respect back. This goes a long way to forming strong relationships, and it also sets the bar for how well others treat you. The high-value woman never allows anyone to disrespect or devalue her. She will also speak up if this happens, and won’t hesitate to end the relationship if she continues to be disrespected.
• Never put your life on hold when you meet someone. Men place a higher value on women who have hobbies and dreams that they are passionate about, as well as a social circle outside of their relationship. This is what makes you the fun and interesting person who was able to attract them in the first place. A high-value woman never drops her plans if he calls her last minute to meet up. She knows she deserves better than to be in someone’s life just to fill a void when they have nothing better to do.
• When you start opening yourself up to your partner you will naturally feel vulnerable because you are allowing them in so they can get to know the real you. Being vulnerable doesn’t mean you are weak, as it takes a strong woman to allow others to see her softer side and to ask for help if she needs it. A high-value woman knows that by doing this the trust between you will grow, which will also strengthen the bond between you.
• Do not be afraid to walk away if your relationship isn’t working for you. Not everyone that comes into our lives are meant to stay. And it’s better to be alone, than to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect by being with someone who doesn’t see you as the gorgeous and wonderful woman you are. A high-value woman knows that when a relationship is no longer working or making her happy, it’s not going to get better the longer she stays in it. Instead, she would rather be happy and on her own than to be in a relationship that drains her and makes her miserable.

A FINAL NOTE

I hope after reading my blog you will understand just how important it is to become a high-value woman. As not only will you attract a better-quality man to come into your life and stay. You will also realise that you deserve only the very best from your current partner and the people who are in your life today.

If you would like to learn more, or feel stuck and need more clarity around whether the relationship you’re currently in is the right one for you, please book a complimentary 45-minute consultation with me so we can discuss this further.

Everything we talk about will be completely confidential and in a non-judgemental space. I look forward to hearing from you soon.